Friday, July 27, 2012

WARNING Very Graphic Photos of Melanoma

I have shared with you how my friend of 35 years who I met when we were 7 years old has stage 4 melanoma.  She has shared some photos of new tumors.  I have never seen anything like it.  It made me think that if someone were to see these photos, they might decide to quit using tanning beds and always use sunscreen.  Maybe this post can save a life. 

When we were growing up, I went with her and her family for many many long lake trips.  Moms didn’t think about sunscreen back then.  It was until we got blisters on our shoulders and noses, that anyone thought to cover us up or make us wear sunscreen.  Tanning beds became popular when we were in high school.  No one worried about cancer then like we do now.  The warnings weren’t as prevalent and to tell you the truth, even if they were I am sure we had the attitude that melanoma would never happen to us.  But it did. 

My friend first discovered her melanoma about 2 years ago.  When she showed the doctor he didn’t seem very concerned, but because she was he removed and biopsied it.  It was stage 1 melanoma.  It was finally removed, but then discovered they needed to remove more than they thought and she went back and was left with an indention in the back of her arm.  It was gone, she was glad and life went on. 

In May, she noticed a lymph node under her arm that was tender and swollen.  She feared the worst and her fear was correct.  The melanoma was back.  Of course insurance didn’t want to help her right away with a PET scan.  So finally she was able to get a CT scan which confirmed the cancer and then they got to pay for a PET scan too.  Dumb insurance.  She had the lymph node under her arm, a few other smaller ones and a few spots in her lungs.  She was told if she didn’t get accepted into the trial in Maryland, then her chances of survival were slim to none.

Thank goodness she was accepted.  They tried to remove the lymph node tumor and harvest cells that would later help fight her cancer, but they were unable to remove all of it.  While waiting to get the PET scan and get into the trial, it grew.  They got what the could and left the parts connected to nerves, muscle, blood vessels, etc. 

She went home and about a week later growths appeared under her arm. 

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You can see the incision area where they tried to remove the lymph node/tumor. 

Of course she is very concerned.  She returns back to Maryland and they do more tests and she qualifies for another trial.  She starts to take Zelboraf.  It can help shrink the tumors.  We are thinking great.  She needs some relief and they need to shrink. 

A few days later her underarm looks like this.

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Then the next day this happens.

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Another view.

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She is worried and goes to the ER.  They tell her it is the medicine working.  We hope that is the case because a week after taking the meds her underarm looks like this now. 

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Side view.

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Yes it hurts.  She is on morphine.  The above pic looks like she has grown another breast.  She can’t put her arm down.

She goes next week to start her chemo which only kills good cells, not cancer cells, but it will make room for the TIL  treatment.  She will be gone for the month of August. 

Please pray for my friend Rosa that she has healing and comfort.  And please avoid tanning and make your children aware of the dangers of tanning.  And if you have a suspicious mole get it checked NOW. 

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30 comments:

  1. Wow! what a wake-up call for the rest of us. i have never seen melanoma before and was kinda grossed out by this post, but i am glad i saw it as it a cold reality. i hope the medicine helps your friend for all the pain she has to go through when taking it. sending love and prayers her way for comfort and healing.

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  2. How terrible for Rosa. I hope all these interventions will help her. Encourage her to stay positive throughout this ordeal. You are so right that our parents never realized the effects of the sun on our skin. At least we are better informed and have passed on better info to our children.

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  3. I will be praying for your friend and that she will fully recover. What a sad and horrible thing to be going through. It's a shame that no one knew then what we know now. Not that knowing what we know now about skin cancer is stopping many people from tanning. I have very fair skin and my lack of a tan is constantly mocked. Well my Grandpa and my Great Grandpa both have had skin cancer So I'm extremely cautious. So, I just put up with the jokes about my light skin 'cause it's just not worth it. Thanks so much for sharing this story and your warning. ~ Jamie

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  4. Oh my goodness, this is so scary! I worry all the time about skin cancer since I spent so much time in a tanning bed when I was younger...now I'm constantly putting sunscreen on myself and my children. My thoughts and prayers go out to Rosa. What an awful thing to go through. Hopefully, things will improve for her soon. Has she ever heard anything about Gerson therapy? It involves radically changing your diet to help the body heal itself. My cousin had a stage four brain tumor and has followed a similar eating plan ever since he was diagnosed (he also had some chemo initially). It's done wonders for him...somewhat of a miracle really.

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  5. Looks terrible. I wish I could offer help, but can't other than to say that avoidance of sunburn while young is best, but in this case it seems the horse has bolted. Here in Melbourne way too many people send too much time in the sun and I think it's a disaster in the making.

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  6. Looks terrible. I wish I could offer help, but can't other than to say that avoidance of sunburn while young is best, but in this case it seems the horse has bolted. Here in Melbourne way too many people send too much time in the sun and I think it's a disaster in the making.

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  7. I'm so sorry she has to go through this. What a terrible thing.

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  8. My husband was diagnosed with malignant melanima stage IIIC. Thank you for sharing this. We tend to take the sun for granted. Since diagnosis we have been educating people what we have learned as well. Sending positive thoughts to Rosie.

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  9. I had a melanoma removed from my face in 2008. I was lucky. We got it early and so far, so good. I will see a dermatologist every six months, for the rest of my life.
    I preach and preach to my children and grandchildren, and although they do use sunscreen, they still lay out to tan.
    This might help them see just what it can do.

    I pray for the best for your friend.

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  10. Oh so sorry. I have a few that Iam concerned about that got worse on my beach trip. I grew up in the time of idoline and baby oil. Yes, I have had water blisters from the sun. I will def get checked out. Will pray for your friend.

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  11. That was tough to look at but I am grateful to you & Rosa for sharing this graphic depiction of the effects of sun and tanning. I wish her the very best in care, treatment and comfort.

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  12. I will pray for your friend, Rosa.

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  13. Thank you Tracy for sharing these pictures with us. While graphic the pictures are eye opening. I admire Rosa's courage. A big virtual hug for Rosa. Please let her know that we are flooding heaven with prayers for her.

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  14. Thank you and Rosa for sharing these, although graphic, they are eye opening. Will keep her in my prayers.

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  15. I could never have imagined how melanoma works. Thank you for posting and making us so aware of the dangers of sunbaking. There are some natural ways to help beat it. google Kelley Eidem and also the Budwig diet. It could help her. best wishes.

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  16. Wow this is truly scary. I am glad you are sharing maybe it will help at least one person notice a bump or remember to put on sun screen. Prayers for your friend

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  17. thank you for sharing. so many people dont realize how dangerous mel. is. my sister was diagnosed with it at 30years old...she was in stage four by the time they found it. It was the most horrid thing ive ever seen a person go through. We had no idea it was deadly. She passed away 11 months after find it leaving behind two daughters (8 and 5)...6 years ago this month.

    My children wear sunscreen regardless how long they are in the sun and where they are.

    thank you for sharing and will keep your friend in my prayers

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  18. I'm sorry to read about your friend! It's a scary thing!! I too grew up in the sun and using tanning beds = Ihad a melanoma removed from my leg last summer, along with a lumph node to see if it had spread. Thank goodness it hadn't!! Before surgery my doctor had me get a full body PET scan and brain MRI so he would know before my surgery, if there was anything else going on. Thank goodness, again, there wasn't! I was lucky; we got it early. The first year, every 3 months, I drove the 10 hour round trip for check ups. Now this year, every 6 months.
    I pray for good results and the best for your friendin her treatment!!

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  19. How sad! She will be in my thoughts AND I sure hope she comes through this ok!!!!!! Thanks for putting this up and trying to wake people up to the dangers of tanning!!!

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  20. Dear Jesus, you are the healer. We pray you heal Rosa right now. Make these tumors dissapear and let her skin return to normal. Giver her peace and comfort and please take away her pain. Amen

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  21. My heart and prayers go out for your sweet friend! Jesus is the healer and we must let him embrace her with his loving power. I will continue to lift her up!

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  22. I am so sorry your friend is going through this and I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.

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  23. How is she doing today? Has she gone back to the doctor?

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  24. poor soul i had no idea this is what that type of cancer can look like all i can say is damn......all my prayers are with your friend and all the loved ones and when my sister in law started her 20 yr battle with cancer ( thats just a round figure she is dealing with cancer again) the doc at John Hopkins told her that attitude is #1 in beating cancer, i hope your friend is in that mind frame.

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  25. I am so sorry that she has to go through this. It must be very scary for her. Good for you for putting the word out there about melanoma.

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  26. Please let us know how she is doing now and if the tumors have grown even bigger. Thank you!

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  27. OH, that is so horrible!!! My mom had melanoma on her face and had to have it cut off her nose. I was SOOO thankful she had it done when she did. Sounds like Rosa really needs to get to a doctor that doesn't take this so lightly. When my mom had hers, they wanted her to come back in as soon as possible to get it removed. Maybe that is too complicated for her now? Praying for her, and for you.

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  28. Thank you for sharing this .It is a very important lesson ,how brave she must be to go through this and share this. My sister is recovering from melanoma and doing well ( thank g-g) I will keep your friend in my prats . Stay strong
    Pye

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  29. Thank you for sharing this .It is a very important lesson ,how brave she must be to go through this and share this. My sister is recovering from melanoma and doing well ( thank g-g) I will keep your friend in my prats . Stay strong
    Pye

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  30. I had 1st stage and it was removed via surgery. I was a heavy tanner and I have very fair skin. I have about a 3 year inch scar across my shoulder from surgery and have been cancer free for 6 years. I am just starting to feel pain in my scar after 6 years. Aching deep in there. Im hoping its my shoulder bag and the cut muscle scar over my shoulder and not recurrence. Prayers to your friend. Tanning places really trick you. I was actually told they have A and B Rays but No C rays which they said stand for Cancer Rays so I was going every day from 20-27 years old. Now I wear sunblock and do spray tans.

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